In Chapter 10 of The Little Money Bible by Stuart Wilde, he speaks about what he calls the Law of Love Money and Compassion. Something very interesting grabbed my attention today as I was listening, and I was able to discern something new about changing thought in order to attract what you want.
Here’s the chain reaction:
1. Feel self hate and loathing that is weighing heavily on your mind.
2. Use the pain of that self hate to numb you from the real root of your issues.
3. Give off negative energy from the unresolved issues that are written all over our face/body/words/actions…no matter how subtle.
4. Ask for money, get none. Ask for rewarding work, get the opposite. Ask for a good deal, get a bad deal.
Wilde says, that the reason is that in order to spend money, people have to feel secure in making the transfer.
People who want to accept our money and people to whom we want to give money, will feel uneasy about the exchange if you have negative energy attached to it.
So what do you do if you do feel self hate or loathing and can’t change it overnight?
Wilde suggests that in order to attract the money and people you want in your life, you don’ t have to change your entire self right now. You simply have to be, “OK with who you are, flaws and all, and [go] out in the world with honorable intentions,” and that is what will ultimately will make you attractive to the people who have what you want.
Bottom Line: In order to give out good energy around money, work — anything you want, it’s not about changing your flaws right now. It’s about changing the way you think about your flaws so that your energy is swayed in a positive direction.
Some affirmative thoughts he offers around this philosophy are:
“I’m going out today. I’m going to believe in myself. I’m going to be honorable. I’m going to concentrate on people and treat them fairly. I’m going to treat myself fairly. By nurturing myself, my energy will build and I will feel more secure. By being more secure, I will prosper.”
